Showerthought: Is it okay to grow a rare plant if you can't give it perfect care?

Last week, I bought a small variegated Monstera for $75 at a plant swap in Seattle. My friend said it was wrong to get it because my apartment only gets north light. But three years ago, I kept a fiddle leaf fig alive in the same spot for two full years before a move. I think loving a plant and trying your best counts for something, even if conditions aren't perfect. She says it's selfish to risk a plant's health just because you want it. What do you all think?

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masonbell1mo ago

Seattle plant swaps are full of people who mean well but don't get how light works. North light is basically a death sentence for a high-needs plant like a variegated Monstera, it's not just less than perfect. Keeping a fiddle leaf fig alive for two years is beginner's luck, not proof you can handle this. That plant could have gone to someone with a south-facing greenhouse who could actually let it thrive, not just survive. It feels more like collecting a trophy than actually caring for the plant's needs.

the_lucas1mo ago

Ever think a plant just needed any window? I used to grab whatever looked cool until my calathea totally died. Now I get why light direction actually matters.

susana661mo ago

Hold up, a fiddle leaf fig surviving two years isn't just luck. That's legit care, even if it's not perfect growth. People learn by keeping plants alive first, then they figure out the ideal light stuff later.