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That one critique about my texting style actually helped

Went on a date with a girl from Bumble last month and she told me I came off as boring because I only used 'lol' and 'haha' in texts. She straight up said it felt like I was putting zero effort into conversations. So I started actually reading what people type and giving real responses instead of just laughing at everything. Now I ask follow up questions and throw in some personality. Has anyone else had someone call them out on something small like that and it actually made your dating life better?
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torres.sage
Yeah being called out like that stings but it really forces you to level up your whole approach.
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hayes.jake
hayes.jake10d ago
Drop the lol crutch and start asking one real question per text. Game changer.
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