c/career-advice

amy154•6h ago

Started documenting every rejection I got for 2 months and it totally changed my interview approach

I wrote down the exact questions that tripped me up and what I felt went wrong during each call, and after 8 interviews I realized I was failing on the same 2 behavioral questions every time. Has anyone else tried tracking their interview patterns like this and found something they overlooked?

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parker_park8•1d ago

Had a talk with my old manager Dave last week that completely flipped how I see side projects on resumes

He told me he actively skips candidates who list a half dozen unfinished GitHub repos because it screams they can't commit, not that they're ambitious, and now I'm wondering if I should just delete 3 of my dead projects instead of polishing them.

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the_nina•2d ago

Spent $400 on a career coach and got told to change industries entirely

On one hand the push made me pivot to a field I actually enjoy now, but on the other hand I feel like I wasted months of effort and cash on someone who just wanted a quick win for their success rate - has anyone else paid big for coaching and come out either grateful or bitter about it?

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alicew68•3d ago

That retired project manager in Phoenix who told me your resume is just a story, not a list of jobs

He said if I can't make my career sound like a story someone wants to finish, I'm just wasting paper, and that one line made me rewrite my whole resume in 20 minutes.

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sammoore•4d ago

Picked a stable office job over a freelance gig paying double last spring

I chose the 9-to-5 with benefits in Cleveland instead of the $80,000 contract as a remote designer, and while my savings account is smaller, my sleep schedule is way better and I don't dread Sunday nights anymore, has anyone else traded money for peace of mind like that?

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tarag28•9d ago

I used to think 'fake it till you make it' was terrible advice, now I'm not so sure

For years I told people to just be honest about what you don't know, but after watching a coworker bluff his way into a project lead role and actually learn on the job, I started questioning my stance. He had zero experience with crew scheduling but somehow figured it out in 3 months, and his team respected him more for it. Has anyone else seen this approach actually work out long term, or did it backfire on someone you know?

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lisa5•9d ago

Had a chat with my boss yesterday and it made me question my whole career path

So my manager pulled me aside after our weekly meeting and said I've been doing great on the technical side but my communication skills are holding me back from promotions. She mentioned that I've missed 3 chances for team lead roles because I can't explain things clearly in meetings. I've been at this company for 6 years and never thought about soft skills being that important. Has anyone else had a boss drop a truth bomb on them out of nowhere?

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rileyellis•9d ago

TIL my company's 'professional development fund' expires if you don't use it by December

I found out last week that my employer gives us $1,500 a year for classes or conferences, but it doesn't roll over. I had $800 sitting there from March that I completely forgot about. HR told me I have to spend it by Dec 15 or lose it. I'm scrambling to sign up for a project management cert course before the deadline. Has anyone else dealt with a use-it-or-lose-it perk like this and found a good way to use the money fast?

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the_holly•10d ago

Overheard my boss say 'quiet firing' is just 'managing expectations' and it hit different

I was grabbing coffee near the break room and heard my manager tell another supervisor that if someone isn't performing, you just don't give them raises or good projects until they quit. He literally called it 'managing expectations' with a straight face. I've been here 2 years and got a 1.5% raise last cycle with zero feedback on my work. Has anyone else dealt with this and found a way to call it out without getting yourself on the chopping block?

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ray189•12d ago

Was skeptical about trade school until my buddy Mike made $80k his first year out

I went to a community college first and got nowhere, just debt. Then my buddy Mike enrolled at a local trade school in Phoenix for HVAC, finished in 10 months, and landed a job making $80k his first year. It got me thinking about how many of us sleep on trades as a real career move. Has anyone else seen big success with trade school over a traditional degree?

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kim191•13d ago

Overheard a junior dev say 'I just use ChatGPT' and it made me pause

I was grabbing coffee last week near the office kitchen here in Austin and heard this kid straight up say he doesn't bother learning syntax anymore because the AI handles it. In my experience, that kind of shortcut can bite you when you're debugging at 2 AM. Has anyone else seen new hires lean too hard on tools without knowing the basics first?

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the_jason•13d ago

TIL a career coach in Omaha told me to fake knowledge in interviews

Walked into a networking event downtown and this guy said just bluff your way through tech questions like I did, got the job in two weeks, anyone else ever tried that and regretted it?

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verar21•14d ago

Stayed at a dead-end job for 2 years vs quitting with no backup - which is worse?

I was working at a call center in Austin for $15 an hour, taking 40 calls a day from angry people about their phone bills. My gut told me to quit every morning for like 18 months straight, but I was scared of having no income. So I stayed, and it wrecked my confidence and I gained 15 pounds from stress eating. Then my buddy Marcus quit his similar job with nothing lined up, lived on ramen for 4 months, and ended up finding a web design gig that pays twice as much. So I'm wondering, for those of you who've been in this spot, is it smarter to stick it out and save a 6-month cushion before leaving, or take the leap and trust you'll figure it out on the other side? What did you pick and how did it really turn out for you?

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rowan2•15d ago

The mistake people make in cover letters is just listing job duties

I was reviewing resumes for a manager role at a small marketing firm in Austin last month and saw this over and over. People copy their job descriptions into cover letters, talking about what they were assigned to do. But I realized the ones that stood out described a specific problem they solved. Like one guy said he turned a $500 ad budget into $4,000 in sales by focusing on local Facebook groups. That told me more than any list of tasks ever could. Has anyone else noticed this pattern when hiring?

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david_rivera4•19d ago

My uncle was right about skipping college for trade school

My uncle Bob kept telling me for years that welding would pay better than my desk job in Austin. I ignored him for 5 years until I got laid off from my data entry position making $38k. Took a 6 month welding course at Austin Community College for $2,800 and now I'm pulling $52k with overtime. Has anyone else had family give them career advice that actually worked out better than they expected?

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danielb43•20d ago

The applicant who brought a resume on a pizza box

Back in 2019 I was helping with hiring at a small marketing firm in Omaha and this guy walks in for an interview holding a pizza box... turns out he'd printed his resume on the lid with edible ink. He was totally serious too, said it showed he could 'think outside the box' while we're all staring at pepperoni stains. We didn't hire him but I still wonder if that gimmick ever worked for someone else.

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elizabethtaylor•21d ago

Had a weird chat with my neighbor about salary expectations

He's a retired engineer and told me I should be asking for 20% more than what I thought was normal for my admin role in Dallas. Has anyone else realized they've been lowballing themselves this whole time?

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elizabeth900•21d ago

Why everyone keeps telling new workers to 'follow your passion' is dead wrong

I've been in IT support for 12 years now, and I keep seeing people give advice that passion will fix everything. Last month a coworker told her nephew to just do what he loves and money will follow. But I started out loving gaming and ended up hating my help desk job because nobody talks about the boring parts. Real career growth comes from building skills in something useful, not chasing a dream until you burn out. Has anyone else found that practical skills beat passion in the long run?

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cameron538•22d ago

My salary negotiation tactic was actually costing me money for 4 years

I always started talks by saying my current salary, thinking it built trust. Last month a recruiter straight up told me I was leaving 15k on the table every time by anchoring myself low before they even made an offer. Anyone else have a hiring manager or recruiter pull back the curtain on a mistake like this?

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alice_kim•24d ago

Threw $300 down the drain on a 'career coach' who just read me LinkedIn articles

I hired this career coach in Chicago last month because I was stuck in my admin job. She charged me $150 per session and after two meetings she basically just told me to update my resume and network more. I could have gotten that advice for free from a blog post. Has anyone else paid for career coaching and regretted it?

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hugo825•24d ago

Thought networking events were pointless until one landed me a job

Used to hate those awkward mixers. Free pizza and forced small talk. Went to one in Austin three years ago just to get out of the house. Ended up chatting with a guy about old motorcycles for twenty minutes. He hired me two weeks later. Anyone else have a random connection pay off like that?

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the_angela•26d ago

Chose a side hustle over a weekend MBA program 2 years ago and I don't regret it

Everyone told me I needed that fancy degree to move up at my marketing job. I looked at the $30,000 price tag for a local program and just couldn't do it. Instead I put that time into freelancing on Upwork, picking up small social media gigs for local shops. I made about $8,000 in my first year and learned more about real client work than any class could teach me. My manager actually noticed the portfolio I built and gave me a raise anyway. Has anyone else skipped the traditional path and seen it pay off in a different way?

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norathomas•26d ago

Took a pay cut for a job with a shorter commute 3 months ago and it changed my whole outlook

I was driving 45 minutes each way to a sales job in Phoenix that paid $55k, and last spring I switched to a data entry role 10 minutes from my apartment for $48k. After factoring in gas, wear on my car, and the stress of traffic, I'm actually saving about $200 a month and I'm way less tired at the end of the day. Has anyone else found that a shorter commute is worth more than a bigger paycheck?

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jennyp19•27d ago

Tried negotiating a raise with data from Glassdoor and it backfired badly

I went into my review with salary averages from Glassdoor for my role in Austin, thinking it would prove I was underpaid. My manager said those numbers don't account for company size or my actual performance, and I ended up looking unprepared. Has anyone else used salary data that just made things worse instead of helping?

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gibson.elizabeth•29d ago

Overheard my boss say my job could be done by a chatbot and now I'm spiraling

I was grabbing a coffee from the break room last Tuesday and heard my manager talking to the VP about how our customer support team might get replaced by AI. He specifically said something like 'we could save $45k a year just on Sarah's salary alone'. I've been at this company for 3 years in Nashville and I thought my performance reviews were solid. Has anyone else been in a situation where you overheard something that made you question your whole career path? How do you even bounce back from knowing your job might be automated?

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